Tuesday, August 18, 2009

The Hot Seat: How to pick a Florist

In The HOT Seat: Aaron Vieri, Flowers of Winter Park "Aaron, What tips would you give brides that are starting the florist search?"

When it comes to choose the flowers of your wedding day, there are various facts to consider:
Color scheme.
Are the flowers I want available in those colors?
Are they in season?
What is the expense for a peony? Rose? Hydrangea?


Let’s begin with choosing the florist for your wedding. Do your research! You usually will hear about a great florist from a friend or perhaps experienced someone’s work at a wedding you attended. Call or email the florist to set up an appointment. Once it’s time to meet with your floral designer, bring pictures, sashes, or even a color palette of the flowers you are interested in. These tips will make the meeting process easier and more fun because your florist will get an idea of what you are looking for and the idea you want to portray.
In your first meeting, make sure to ask to see photos of their previous wedding work. This will ensure the capabilities of your florist. Feel out the vibe the florist gives you. If your florist pays attention to your wants and needs, you are probably in good hands.
If your florist says your choices are no good, not available, or out of season, without giving you options; perhaps take a second look elsewhere.
Your florist should make you feel comfortable. They should aid your ideas and expand them with a professional touch. Never let a florist take over. Remember, it’s about blending your vision with theirs to create a unique event. If the flowers you seek are not in season, make sure you’re given options that can be substituted and yet create a similar look. Be realistic about your wants and needs in terms of your wedding budget. Mention to your florist you have a specific total budget and they will work it out with you. You do not need to spend an exorbitant amount of money to create the florals for your wedding as long as you are realistic. A small centerpiece can still be beautiful and create a statement.

When you do receive a proposal from your florist, ensure that you have details of everything from the flowers that will be used, colors , rental items, and that delivery/setup/strike are mentioned. This will help eliminate a miscommunication.

Once you made the decision to book your florist make sure you or your coordinator keep constant contact. If you were recommended a florist, like their work, and you click well – book them. If you wish to shop around, pick the floral designer that gives you options and a good price. A few tips from a professional:
1- Take consideration that some of your wedding colors may not have a “perfect match” in flowers. However consider creating some contrast with coordinating flower colors to mix and match.

2- If your big day is going to be outdoors in the middle of summer (you might think it is crazy bit it really happens!) make sure your florist gives you the best choices for a hot summer day. Your look should be unique, but not wilting in the heat. Select long lasting blooms.

3- Sometimes brides react with a laugh, and say, “that’s too much” or “that’s outrageous.” I’d like to provide the behind the scenes reasons why your floral budget may have you bummed. First, many brides do not take into consideration the “labor” of their project. Brides see a bouquet in the magazine and they think they’re paying for some blooms and that’s it. Unfortunately, sometimes preparation for a wedding can takes hours and even days. Take this into consideration when you see the bottom line. Perhaps ask your florist how much labor will be required to pull together your dream wedding and be understanding if you have a unique design. Most florists will also charge a delivery and setup fee to ensure the floral pieces are perfectly in place and ready for the big show. They also may be on site to accurately move ceremony décor to the reception. If you do the math, think of what you save by reusing flowers. Any florist that will not move flowers isn’t interested in your business. Many of your items are not purchased either. Rentals account for much of a centerpiece or ceremony setup. Vases, candles, accessories are things that are rented, while the flowers can be removed at the end of the evening to share with guests.

Thursday, August 13, 2009

When You Wouldn't Hire A Wedding Planner....

Very interesting article sent to me by the fab Jeffrey Stoner. Check it out.....

http://www.thespectrum.com/article/20090813/ST%20GEORGE/908130313

Tuesday, August 11, 2009

READ ALL ABOUT IT: Marine finds Love


Run, don't walk, to your nearest bridal store to pick up the latest copy of Central Florida Bride! Inside, you will find a feature on fabulous couple, Jamie & Mike; married this year at the Ballroom at Church Street. Click here to read all about it on the Central Florida Bride site.

Saturday, August 8, 2009

Fav Etsy Find of the Week

A few months ago, I was introduced to Etsy by my creative, incredibly chic, and undeniable cute bride, Meagan (now bka Mrs. Jackson!). Ever since then, I have been engulfed in the pages of Etsy as I find more and more unusual and unique handcrafted jewels. Today I am featuring a fab Etsy find I came across. Check it out!

Serendipity Beyond Design

Newspaper Invite or STD:


Bachelorette Party Invite in Vegas:



Passport Invite:




Thursday, July 30, 2009

Who said you have to be traditional?

I would love to hear thoughts on this one......

Sunday, July 12, 2009

Real Weddings: Jessica & Darren

"From this moment" Jessica & Darren are husband and wife. We must extend a huge thank you to this wonderful couple for including us on their special day. The team at Puff n Stuff did a wonderful job, and the Ballroom at Church Street looked fabulous. ...but not nearly as fabulous as Darren's gorgeous Jessica. Boy oh boy did the Langleys & Lowes have a great time. Take a peek and see for yourself:

Photography by Brandy Burridge

Monday, July 6, 2009

Real Weddings: Ronit & Scott

Keisari Silverman's Wedding Trailer from A Magic Moment on Vimeo.

Fall in love with Ronit & Scott, just as we did.

Tuesday, June 30, 2009

YFA Trendsetter Nominated on WeddingChannel.com

The Your Fantasy Affair Trendsetter blog has been nominated for the "best blog" award by WeddingChannel.com. If you're a YFA fan, log on and give us your vote!

Nominate me for the WeddingChannel.com Bridal Blog Awards!

Monday, June 29, 2009

Style House on Small Business TV!

Tune in today, and today only, to see event designer and coordinator, Sarah Pickar Sleeth, interviewed on Small Business Television!
http://www.sbtv.com/

Tuesday, June 23, 2009

The HOT Seat: Finding a Wedding DJ

In The HOT Seat: Celebrity DJ Carl
"Hey DJ Carl, What tips would you give brides that are looking for a top notch wedding DJ?"


Planning a wedding is a lot of work and one of the most daunting tasks is securing a reputable and entertaining music source. Due to the vast number of disc jockey's serving Orlando, it can be difficult to narrow down the selection and choose the one who will provide a unique experience for your special event.

In any professional field, there are those who excel and those who act unethically; disappointing the client and ruining the event. Awareness and knowledge are the key to finding the right professional in the wedding entertainment field. It is important to do research on every DJ that you are considering. After gathering all of the necessary materials needed to make an educated purchasing decision, there are a couple of important questions you should consider asking your prospective disc jockey.

1. Meet the prospective DJ in person. A simple meeting will help in determining whether the DJ has the personality and most importantly entertaining style to manage your reception in a professional manner.

2. Ask the DJ/MC to vocalize how they would announce your wedding party introductions. Give them a couple names and have them prove to you that they can generate excitement and introduce your friends and family in an appropriate way.

3. Discuss the DJ's typical interaction with the guests. Ask them to explain how they involve your family and friends in the celebration. Ask about specific instances where they have encountered "unresponsive" wedding parties and how they revved up the energy of the party.

4. Ask the DJ how they typically work requests, dedications or special announcements into their program. Are they flexible during the reception? Think of different scenarios and have them explain their ideas and styles in working to keep the party moving smooth and effortlessly.

5. Ask about the music transitions. The DJ is vital to the flow of your reception music. A great DJ not only plays a variety of music, but the DJ should also play the right music at the right time. A great DJ can mix the music seamlessly and never allows any dead air unless someone is giving a toast or blessing.

Keep these 5 points in mind when meeting with all prospective DJs and you should feel confident in your final selection. The most important factor is that you feel comfortable and at ease while working with your DJ. Remember, it is your celebration. A professional and responsible disc jockey always respects and appreciates that and will go out of their way to help throw that perfect celebration!

photo of DJ Carl by Garrett Nudd photography

DJ Carl Williams is a highly sought after professional disc jockey and music trend specialist. He has been involved in the music industry for over fifteen years as a leading professional DJ and top Nightclub Entertainment Consultant. His extensive music industry knowledge and entertainment experience are extensive and well known in the industry. Learn more about Carl at http://www.djcarl.com/.

Saturday, June 13, 2009

Introducing: The HOT Seat

As Sharia and I were chatting this week, we decided that the hot summer months would be an excellent opportunity to open up our blog to our favorite vendors. We're calling these guest blog entries our "HOT Seat." A chance for us to grill our favorite vendors on their expertise in their field. We've chosen several of Florida's finest and we can't wait to hear what they have to say. Stay tuned for tips on music, videography, flowers, decor, photography, and picking the ideal location.

Wednesday, May 27, 2009

WHAT'S HOT: Let Them Eat Cake!



You can have your cake and eat it too! When it comes to wedding cakes these days we expect the unexpected. There is pretty much nothing you can't get away with and the options are endless! From cakes adourned with flowers, cupcake towers, and individual mini cakes, the only thing that's really expected is for your cake to taste good!


Is your future hubby feeling left out? Surprise him or let him go crazy with his own groom's cake!



Wednesday, May 13, 2009

"Can't Help Falling In Love" with Katie & Jason

May 9 brought us the wedding of Katie Brandon & Jason Farmand. Everything this couple did for the entire weekend was full of love.

Ceremony was held at the Cathedral of the Incarnation in College Park. Expert guitarist, William Colledge, played acoustic "Can't Help Falling in Love" as the bridesmaids and groomsmen entered the chapel, and switched tunes to "God Only Knows" for the bride's entrance. Aaron from Flowers of Winter Park did a fabulous job of decorating the church and reception. Reception was held at the Winter Park Civic Center. Katie and her mom, Pam Brandon, had a distinct vision for turning the civic center into a wedding reception dream. Puff n Stuff created tasting stations with such delights as Satch salad with flat breads, braised short ribs and mashed potatoes, shrimp and grits with fried green tomatoes, and a mediterannean cous cous with lamb that would knock your socks off. The family's love for food was seen everywhere, including the 5 tier masterpiece from celebrity pastry chef Erich Herbitschek of Disney's Grand Floridian. A big thanks to David Burke and his assistant John for sharing these images. David & John did a wonderful job covering Katie & Jason!

Tuesday, April 28, 2009

WHAT'S HOT: Textured Bouquets

It seems that the days of the solid single flower bouquet are over. We're noticing a trend with personal flowers that includes mixing up colors, flowers, and textures and we love the results. Want the bold look that's outside the box? Add in things like feathers, berries, or bling to your bouquet to give extra va-va-voom!









Tuesday, April 7, 2009

What's HOT: Trends for your best maids!

Who doesn't love bright colors for spring and summer?  Why not dress your 'maids in something vivid to make your affair sizzle with the seasons?  Go ahead and spring for those fuchsias, sunshine yellows, and vibrant greens! 
Or if you want something a little more understated, pastel colors can also be an elegant touch to your affair.  
Having trouble choosing one hue that you love? Let your girls doll up in chic black or "2009 must have" pewter, then use their bouquets and accessories to make the statement. 
Pattern dresses may help eliminate the "bridesmaids-ey" look if it's not your thing, and the style is HOT HOT HOT!  Your wedding can set the trends by stepping outside the box.  It will also add an extra touch of fun to your photos as well. 
 Pick a few of your favorite colors, and let your girls add their own piece of personal flair.  We're all for a little extra sass!  

Wednesday, April 1, 2009

Your Fantasy Affair Announces: STYLE HOUSE WEDDINGS & EVENTS

Look out Your Fantasy Affair fans, we're taking our company and brand to a whole new level. We feel that over the past few years, our technique and style has outgrown our name, so we are proud to introduce to Florida and the World:



Keep an eye out for our new and improved website with the Style House Weddings & Events name and logo. Same Company, Bigger Style.

Monday, March 30, 2009

YFA Wedding Featured in Destination "I Do" Magazine

The long awaited feature on British footballer (soccer) star, Liam Rosenior, to Erika Quinones is finally here! Destination "I Do" Magazine did a great job on showcasing this couple and why a wedding in Central Florida can be so magical. Click the link below and read on...

Your Fantasy Affair announces: NEW OFFICES!

Your Fantasy Affair is MOVING ON UP! Beginning March 30, Your Fantasy Affair will be "enjoying the view" from our new offices above Dexter's Restaurant in Winter Park. Please make a note of our new business address. We hope to have you visit soon!
558 W. New England Ave.
Suite 230
Winter Park, FL 32789

Thursday, March 26, 2009

Miggie & Matt are Married with 007 Style

The very long awaited wedding of Miggie & Matt has finally come to pass and all we can say is, "WOW." Miggie was nothing less than stunning in her Justina McCaffrey silk gown, her new husband, Matt, looked like he walked right off the set of the latest 007 James Bond movie. A big thank you goes to Castaldo Studio, the Grand Bohemian Hotel, Edgar Montero, First Presbyterian Church of Orlando, & O-Kartz for a job well done!






Miggie and Matt Wedding, by Orlando Wedding Photographer Domenico Castaldo from Domenico Castaldo on Vimeo.

Tuesday, March 10, 2009

What's HOT: Custom Pillows & Baskets

Who says you have to go to Michael's or David's Bridal to get your flower girl baskets or ring bearer pillows? These little accents can make a big "wow" in your ceremony, so don't settle for what every department store carries -- get creative!

An antique pail instead of a basket...
Or a hand sewn purse for petals...
Adorn her basket with bamboo, moss, or flowers...
Or forgo the petal tossing for an adoarble floral pomander...
For your little guys, adorn their pillows with embroiderly, quotes, and a little extra "bling"...

Create a pillow made out of miniature buds...Or forgo the pillow for something that's much more "him" like a baseball glove accented with florals...

Most of all, let your little ones have fun and enjoy the wedding too!




Monday, March 2, 2009

Meagan & Dwayne sizzle with Miami heat!

On Febuary 7th, our favorite girl from Miami, Meagan Owens, gave her hand to the debonair, Dwayne Jackson in a candlelit rooftop Orlando ceremony that brought many guests to tears. Brian & Richard from Flourish divulged the bride’s wishes with draperies, candles, and sparkle everywhere for her ceremony...


...then Flourish let flowers overflow and melt in gorgeous tall vases. Lead coordinator, Sharia Riley, played up the bride’s love of damask prints and bold color to accent the couple’s South Beach style. Can we say: Pistachio Crinkle Taffeta, Damask Velvet Linen, Chameleon Chloe Chairs, and Damask Plates? YUMMY!




The Grand Bohemian staff was on call for every guests’ wish and need, and served them well with a late night ice cream bar! Not to mention, DJ Carl, whom kept the beats pumping and the guests dancing.

Mercedes of the amazing, Bake Me A Cake, built a damask confection for Meagan!
A special thank you and "shout out" to Karla Fountain Photography for the amazing images!

Friday, February 27, 2009

Your Fantasy Affair on LIFETIME'S "Get Married"

Calling all YFA fans: Watch Your Fantasy Affair's Lead Coordinator, Sharia Riley, on Lifetime's "Get Married" TV show this Spring!

AIR DATES:
March 17
March 25
April 7
April 24
April 27


Tune in at 7:30 AM to hear Sharia's tips for Wedding Day success!



Tuesday, February 24, 2009

WHAT'S HOT: Chairs! Chairs! Chairs!

Your reception tablescapes are one of the most important parts of your decor and more often than not there is more focus on centerpieces, linens, flatware, and chargers than the overall table style. But in reality, one of the main things your guests notice is where they park at the table so why not accessorize each guests with a chair that pops? Chairs and furniture like these can really add to the overall aura of your fantasy affair:

A sleek cocktail lounge...


A casual outdoor affair...

Ballgowns aren't just for the bride anymore...
Chaircaps add extra flair to chiavari chairs...

Chiavari covers can make your colors pop...
Looking for something casual yet extra fun? Try a Far East theme with your guests sitting indian style....
The ever popular ghost chair doesn't interfere with line of sight... A YFA favorite: The Chameleon Chair...


Sunday, February 22, 2009

Celeb for a day....

Every bride should be THE celeb of the day. Whether in LA or NY (or Orlando!), a typical starlet wedding consists of a stunning designer dress, breathtaking flowers and decor, a fabulous wedding planner (hint hint!....), and show stopping jewels (bka...bling).

The first three are relatively easy to accomplish. A Monique Lhuillier, Reem Acra, or Vera Wang is as close as your nearest couture bridal boutique. Before now, it has been hard to glam up that jaw-dropping gown with celeb worthy bling. However, Adorn Brides has been able to make accomplishing that glamorous look a lot more achievable.

Adorn Brides has given brides access to beautiful diamonds usually reserved for those gracing the covers of Vogue, People, and InStyle Magazines. For a mere rental fee, you can accessorize with several carats. Adorn Brides has necklaces, bracelets, and earrings, rented as a set or individually, at several price points.

This 18K White Gold 3-Stone Marquis Diamond Pendant totaling 1.5 carats retails for $7,050. Brides can rent this sparking beauty for $240.

This 6 Carat White Gold tassel diamond necklace retails for $17,100 but rents for $570. The site has diamond necklaces available for rent starting at $100. Here are a few other blingy accessories you may be interested in.....

Sapphire and Diamond earrings

Retail $6,000 Rent For $200


Three dimensional diamond earrings

Retail $5,250 Rent For $180

White Gold Diamond Bracelet

Retails $2,900 Rent For $110


7 Carat 4 Strand Diamond Bracelet

Retails $15,500 Rent For $520


One last hint......you can reserve your bridal jewelry as early as you would like. These pieces go quickly so reserve early!

Bridesmaid's sets and Mothers' jewelry are also available!

Monday, February 16, 2009

2009 Bride's Choice Awards

Congratulations Team YFA!
WeddingWire.com has selected Your Fantasy Affair Weddings & Events as a recepient of the 2009 Bride's Choice Awards. This award recognizes YFA in the top three percent of the WeddingWire network for demonstrating excellent quality of service, responsiveness, value of cost, and level of expertise in the wedding industry.

We must thank our loyal brides and grooms who voiced their opinions on WeddingWire.com. This award belongs to you as much as us. CONGRATS!

2009 Bride's Choice Awards presented by WeddingWire  Wedding Cakes, Wedding Venues, Wedding Photographers & More

Wednesday, February 11, 2009

Emille & Nick in BRIDE'S Florida Magazine

Keep your eyes pealed, YFA fans, the gorgeous wedding of Emille & Nick will be featured in the upcoming issue of BRIDE'S Florida Magazine! Get all the juicy details on this adorable couple, and how YFA turned their wedding wishes into the Bride's Fantasy Affair.

Monday, February 2, 2009

FALLing in Love with Emille & Nick

Emille & Nick met while in college at the University of Florida. Nick was a kicker on the football team, and Emille had a long love for sports and the outdoors. They came to the ladies of Your Fantasy Affair requesting an outdoor wedding where they could let guests share their love for Florida’s natural beauty, and have a GREAT time.
Flourish Floral Productions left no detail untouched. The bride’s white lush bouquet coordinated with the groom’s calla lily boutonniere.

The groom gave his groomsmen personalized baseball bats as attendant gifts.

Ceremony was set at Paradise Cove, with a gorgeous lake backdrop, bamboo rattan chairs, and cypress trees and tall urn arrangements framing the altar. The aisle was accented with a monogrammed runner and shepards hooks with mini daisies in the bride’s fall theme of colors.


Guests howled when the groom accidentally dropped the bride’s ring in the sand. But their love of the couple only grew with the mishap. (Note to brides: Marriage isn’t perfect either!)

After ceremony, guests were greeted by caramel apples with paper leaves that enclosed guests’ names and table numbers.

Cocktail hour was set with a cigar roller, jazz duo, Arthur’s Catering passed appetizers, a stunning lake sunset, and twinkling lights overhead.


Guests entered a reception pavilion covered with twinkle lights, chocolates, and burnt oranges. The low multi-colored arrangements by Flourish were accented with cracked glass candelabras and tons of votive candles for extra romance. Zoet Cakes delicious confection was accented in coordinating fall florals…

For fun we brought in a photo booth along with a tiki torch/ribbon display area with clothes pins so guests could display their film.

We had trouble keeping the adorable flowergirl out of the PhotoMagic photo booth.
As guests feet began to swell from dancing to the Leonard Brothers, they migrated to our beach lounge with sofas, fire pit, cigar roller, and smores station. For a fun touch, Kaleidiscope added the couple's monogram to the sand.


ALL PHOTOS BY ROOT PHOTOGRAPHY

Thursday, January 29, 2009

EXTRA! EXTRA! Read All About It!

Brides, Grooms, and Your Fantasy Affair Fans: Head to your favorite local vendor to pick up the newly released Spring/Summer issue of Central Florida Bride Magazine!

Inside you will find features on the weddings of Melannie & Ricardo (August 8, 2008) and Tanya & Darrell (February 16, 2008). PLUS!

Once more, the editors at Central Florida Bride called on us to lend our wedding expertise to local brides. So turn to page 60 for "9 Tips To Initiate The Planning Process;" written by Sarah Pickar Sleeth & Sharia Riley.

Wednesday, January 21, 2009

HOT trend to try...

If you're planning a winter wedding, skip the traditional after dinner coffee and spring for an enticing Hot Chocolate Bar! In December, guests dropped homemade marshmallows in flavors like Vanilla Bean, Peppermint, and Chocolate Chipetta in their fresh hot cocoa and devoured the results. We also added a shots stand with Kahlua, Amaretto, Peppermint Schnapps, and flavored syrups to give our guests some dancing fuel.

Thursday, January 15, 2009

Destination We Do!

Orlando is synonymous with sunshine, family fun, and romantic getaways. To no surprise, with everything this city has to offer, Orlando is THE spot for destination weddings. The girls at Your Fantasy Affair have created a perfect solution for those out-of-town brides who want to say their nuptials stress-free and IN STYLE!

Introducing our Couture Destination We Do Design Package

Especially designed for intimate weddings, our Orlando destination wedding package covers all the essential elements. Ceremony location....check! Officiant....check! Beautiful bouquets....check! Photographer....check! FABULOUS wedding coordinator.....double check! The only thing missing is you and your honey.

Your Fantasy Affair has been deemed Destination Wedding gurus! Put your fears aside and trust THE wedding coordinators who know destination weddings in Orlando and abroad.

Monday, January 12, 2009

Walking in a *MODERN* Winter Wonderland…

For her December 20th wedding, OB/GYN doctor & bride, Pamela Cates wanted to welcome her Indiana family and friends to a modern winter wonderland wedding reception set in Florida. But how do you host a winter themed wedding for snow birds from the North, without freezing temperatures, ice, and actual snow? Hire the ladies at YFA of course!


For their ceremony, Pamela & her fiancé, Dominic, wanted to engulf their guests with romance. The lights of the Omni ChampionsGate International Ballroom were turned down, dozens of pillar candles lined Pamela’s aisle, and Raining Roses built a candle topped altar that didn’t leave a dry eye in the house.
Lead coordinator, Sharia Riley, tossed the standard winter idea of all silvers and frost and challenged Pamela to go “modern bold” with sapphires, peacocks, and lots of white fur! We brought the snow to Florida; and guests entered a snow falling modern winter wonderland with live harp music.
Sharia brought up the final challenge to her team: Why do one tablescape when you can have five? The YFA ladies put our heads together to create 5 distinctly different tables that left every guest feeling like a VIP. No table was alike, not even the stemware, chargers, or flatware!
Long banquet tables with silver burst chargers and iridescent paillette chair covers and a runner.
Round tables with iridescent peacock linen and arrangements bursting with white orchids (a la Raining Roses). White velvet napkins and silver sparkle chargers.
Sapphire square tables with dark helix chargers, snow fur chair caps and napkin bands accented with sapphire brooches for the guests to take home.
Custom canopies were created for the Bride & Groom’s family. Inside the VIP tents hung a crystal chandelier, white cloth-back chairs, and each guest’s place setting held a bowl stuffed with white fur and a full bloom red rose (the Groom’s favorite color).
Close friends of the Bride & Groom sat at Vegas style booths near the dance floor. Instead of an expected arrangement of fresh flowers, Raining Roses and Wizard Connection froze a bouquet in a solid block of ice. Half of the guests sat at custom Room Service banquet booths, half sat in the trend setting ghost chair. Pamela & Dominic sat at their own custom built sweetheart table, covered in white satin and adorned with hanging crystals.
DJ Carl mixed R&B music from behind the couple's custom ice bar; and celebrity photographer, Damon Tucci, was on hand to take record of the whole evening.

Sunday, January 11, 2009

Attention Frequent Shoppers!

So very often I get a call from brides telling me about a recent trip to __________ (fill in the blank with your fav arts and crafts store). Usually the conversation goes from a great sale on cylinder vases to a 20% off coupon used on .99 cent glass rocks. Every now and then, I also get a mix of fish bowls, floating candles, and tulle circles. Now....do not get me wrong. Used the right way they could look great. However, there is a special aspect to wedding design (or decorating) that one must always keep in mind: Shop smart and with a PLAN!

Your wedding should be about YOU and the GROOM. A shopping spree at the local ___________ (fill in again!) with no plan of action or list of essentials is usually a blasé wedding mishap waiting to happen. Here are some tips for creating a beautiful AND unique wedding!

1. Pick a couple items you LOVE and not what you like or think would look nice.

2. Just because your wedding is chartreuse does not mean you have to buy every chartreuse ribbon, candle, and vase you see. Find ESSENTIAL decor items and make those pop!

3. Think of the big picture. Decide on your ideal look and work from there. NEVER go into a store and buy a lot of stuff that you are hoping will fit together later.

4. Consider purchasing unconventional elements. Just because you usually do not see it at weddings does not mean you shouldn’t! Most guests have seen the typical vases and marbles. Find a substitute that is in the same price range but will give a bigger WOW!

I have equipped you with the tools; your hubby-to-be will equip you with the card :), so now you are officially ready to go shopping!

Tuesday, January 6, 2009

Add ART to Your Envelopes & Wedding Reception







We can't contain our admiration and love any longer.  The work of Sarah Hanna is nothing short of stunning, and we adore how it adds a flair of the extraordinary to envelopes, menu cards, and other wedding stationary.  


Miss Hanna, a third generation artist, founded her company on the belief that attention to detail must be extraordinary.  She forgoes traditional calligraphy pens for artist's paint brushes, and each name is written by hand with care.  All inks are custom mixed to ensure her extraordinary result.  

Thursday, January 1, 2009

Forgo Favors for Charity!

How many weddings have you been to where a candle or piece of chocolate is given to you as a wedding favor? In this day and age, those that were hurting before are hurting worse now and American’s are now less able to give to charity. Our solution? Instead of the traditional favor make a donation in each guest’s name to your favorite charity. I think it’s important to note that we may plan plenty of weddings each year, but we’re also guests to many as well. For us as guests, we are just as happy seeing a charitable contribution as we are with a yummy Godiva chocolate bar!


Visit
http://www.idofoundation.org/ for more info!

Friday, December 26, 2008

How to pull off black and white...

Black and white weddings are all the rage, but there's a key to pulling off this classic combo with style. Want our secret ingredient? Use black and white as a pattern, but then pull in your favorite color to make the black/white pattern pop! Need inspiration? See below...

Wednesday, December 17, 2008

Your Fantasy Affair is *NSYNC with the Holidays!

At YFA we do all we can to give back. This year, we took it upon ourselves and our interns to help families in need and the Fatone Family Foundation. We brought in new toys, gift certificates, and cash for the foundation along with donating our services to one lucky bidder. Parties are our fortay, so we had a great time helping out our favorite *NSYNC bandmates!
YFA coordinators Sarah Pickar Sleeth & Sharia Riley with *NSYNC member, Joey Fatone


Sharia & Sarah with *NSYNC bandmate, Chris Kirkpatrick

Monday, December 15, 2008

Pick a color, any color!

Love bright colors? Don’t be scared to use them in your wedding color palette! A bold color can brighten up any room and look amazing in your photos. Plus, any color can be chic if your wedding planner knows how to use them. And of course, the gals at Your Fantasy Affair are the masters of color!












Monday, December 8, 2008

Finding Inspiration

Just recently, Sarah and I were talking about how wedding designs are born and if there is ever a point, after planning hundreds of weddings and events, when you "lose" the magic. I know a huge part of keeping the magic is keeping styles fresh and even more importantly, finding inspiration.

Every wedding is like a blank slate. After getting to know who the couple is, what they enjoy, and what sparks their fire, I start envisioning every detail that embodies the couple's dream wedding. Being honest, it takes a couple days for me to really have that "big picture" in my mind. But.....when it hits me, it HITS me! Usually when it does, it comes from a little piece of inspiration that is completely foreign to the wedding world.

The "ah ha" moment has overcome me in the most interesting of places. When planning Jamie & Jeff's winter black tie wedding, I designed every element based upon a wall painting I saw in a model home while shopping for my new house. The moment I saw the painting I knew exactly where I wanted to go for Jamie. Our fun and funky bride, Jessica, has a wedding inspired from a sample bedding display AND a lamp often seen on the Ruby Tuesday commercial! The patterns and contrasting colors sparked fireworks for this fabulous, bubbly couple. (Keep checking back to see how this all comes together!)

Every bride should look for inspiration in what gives them that tingling feeling inside. I always suggest to not only browse wedding magazines. Peruse home decorating magazines, fashion magazines, and leisure magazines. A favorite spot I go to for inspiration is the mall while window shopping. :) Window displays have beautiful setups that are often unappreciated.

Transforming your wedding look is easy with a little inspiration!

Sunday, December 7, 2008

Happy Birthday Christina!

A very happy birthday to our favorite Rosen School of Hospitality Management intern,
Christina Acosta!

(photo by Castaldo Studio)



Christina has been working with Your Fantasy Affair since August, and is learning what it takes to become a celebrity event planner and designer.

A Green-Come-True Wedding!

Our society has become environmentally conscious and is taking a stand to go green! We have also witnessed this shared belief among our earth-friendly brides. Green weddings are the hot new thing! With eco-friendly weddings entering the mainstream, there are thousands of resources that present all things natural, organic and recycled. Don’t let the idea scare you, here are some helpful tips from the ladies of YFA…

Eco-Friendly Invites
Contribute to a better earth with 100% recycled paper invitations and thank-you notes. Search for stationary that utilizes an eco-equipped printing studio. Earthly Affair specializes in just that, http://www.earthlyaffair.com/. Other alternates to consider are to skip the extras, minimize your mailing and creatively seat your guest paperless.

Go Green Décor
You can still create that ambiance with candlelight by using soy candles. Not only is it romantic, but its energy efficient. They are made from a renewable source and burn longer than regular candles. You can find them in almost any size, scent, shape and color.

Food
When choosing a caterer, consider an organic company that uses locally sourced ingredients; you will be supporting local farmers. And for that flair, you can serve up your signature drinks mixed with organic wines and spirits. When you're done, donate any unused food to shelters or food banks. Check out http://www.localharvest.org/ and/or http://www.slowfoodusa.org/.

Transportation
It might sound cheesy, but set up a vanpool from the hotel for out of town guests to ride to the ceremony and the reception. Share with your guest your go-green mission and they’ll be sure to appreciate your vision, along with them saving some gas dollars. Another element of weddings, that is most stressful on the environment, is carbon emissions from your flight travels and long distance drives. Consider purchasing carbon offset credits to mitigate this.

Try these ideas and your wedding is sure to be Naturally-Ever-After!!!

Thursday, December 4, 2008

Hot Trend of the moment...

Here's a hot trend we have to share: At your wedding our next major event, consider booking a photo booth. Brides, grooms, attendants and friends will have a great time taking cute and funny pictures. And here is the clincher -- you get a copy of everyone's silly photos! Now you don't have to worry if your photographer will capture a photo of each of your guests.

The newly married Mr. & Mrs. sneak away for a private photo session...

their guests keep the good times rolling with cigars in the photo booth...

and are able to take their own photos home as a souvenir...

and the bride doesn't miss an opportunity to pose with her brother...
...and even the YFA team jumps in on the fun as a special surprise for the bride and groom!

Tuesday, November 25, 2008

Portraits from Damon Tucci Studios...

Our love goes out to Damon Tucci and his team for shooting our new "About Us" headshots. We left it up to Damon to capture our personalities and personal style, and we're thrilled with the results.
Your Fantasy Affair's Owner & Lead Event Designer, Sharia Riley


Your Fantasy Affair's Event & Marketing Coordinator, Sarah Pickar Sleeth

Damon Tucci Studios has built up their business to be one of the best, especially with their hot studio office. We're excited to see what they'll do next!

Wednesday, November 5, 2008

Holiday Parties...

We DO love weddings but Your Fantasy Affair knows how to make a holiday party burst with style! Book us today for your holiday event...


Halloween trees by Decorating Services

Monday, October 20, 2008

Your Fantasy Affair MAKES STRIDES Against Breast Cancer


At 8:00 AM on October 18th the Your Fantasy Affair team headed to Lake Eola in Downtown Orlando to MAKE STRIDES for a cure! Our team was comprised of our fabulous wedding coordinators, family, friends, and our brides/grooms and their loved ones. There were over 50 of us in all, and we’re especially proud of our Brides & Grooms that came out to support such a special cause.

THANK YOU, THANK YOU to all our friends, family, and wedding industry insiders that supported our team. With your credit card and cash donations, the Your Fantasy Affair team raised over $2000 for the American Cancer Society. Thank you for your support in raising awareness about this devastating disease.

However the 5k walk didn’t start and end with walking and fundraising! We had a great time laughing with our brides and friends, and talking about what else? WEDDINGS! We can’t wait for next year where we hope to raise over $5000 for breast cancer research!



YFA Newlyweds: Marcus & Ashley Watkins w/ Bride, Jacque Robinson

Bride, Jacque Robinson, brought along her HS Varsity Volleyball team to "Make Strides"

Grooms against Breast Cancer!

3 of the YFA team: Heather Rodriguez, Sarah Pickar Sleeth, & Sharia Riley. What did your shirts say? "Brides Against Breast Cancer!"



The MAKING STRIDES cheerleading squad roots on our walkers and brides!

Thank you friends & family of the Rileys for coming out!

Brides & bridesmaids rest in the park after crossing the finish line...

AT THE FINISH LINE!

Wednesday, October 1, 2008

Upgrade Your Wedding Style

Don't let your budget hold you back! Take it from Ashley & Marcus who wed at the Sunset Harbor Yacht Club in Daytona Beach. They added style tips from lead coordinator, Sharia Riley, to their own ideas and turned their everyday affair into extraordinary. Here are a few quick tips to upgrade your wedding style:

1- Go for colored linens! Chair covers or rented chairs (chiavaris, cloth backs, etc) are a must.

If you want your "WOW!" don't scrimp when it comes to big items in your reception room. Throw a colored linen on the table that will make your guests "ohh" and "ahh." For Ashley's desired fall theme, Sharia suggested a iridescent fire orange pintuck. And don't forget to cover up or replace those ballroom chairs. It will make all the difference in your pictures!

2 -If you want a "white bouquet," go for it! But don't use ALL white flowers. Consider incorporating light pinks, light peaches, ivories, and light greens into your assortment to give your bouquet depth.

3- Don't skip the kids. Yes, sometimes they don't behave perfectly, but try and tell us that this flower girl isn't precious! Sometimes budget and formalities don't permit children to the ceremony and/or reception, but reconsider throwing out the flower girl and/or ring bearer.

4- Can't afford a $15,000 Vera Wang? Take a tip from Ashley and hit the sample sales to look for a stunning gown that would normally be outside your budget. You can upgrade your look without upgrading your credit card debt!

5- Skip the tuxedos. Modern weddings have the groom and groomsmen in attractive day suits instead of a formal tuxedo... and we love the look!


6- Add style to your table numbers! Hit your local craft store or scrap booking shop and look for stylish numbers, die cuts, and embellishments to spice up your tables.



7- Personalize, personalize, personalize!
For Ashley & Marcus, we skipped using the traditional names for their popcorn bar, and instead incorporated names and places that were important to the couple. Want pizza popcorn on your bar and the groom is from Chicago? How about you name it, “Chicago Deep Dish?”



Think about also personalizing for your guests. For Ashley & Marcus, each guest had their own thank you note sitting at their place setting that was personalized to them by the note and the name.